They are destructive to you. Don’t help them. Yes, it is sad that you have not understood this fully before and have in that way been complicit in the destruction of yourself, but it is very good you see it now and can stop colluding. And you will find you heal somewhat. Even seeing what has been happening is a sign of healing already in progress. And there will be much more now.
Also important: someone else said remember, they dislike quality work and are destructive to it and its authors. You are not imagining that.
Axé.
coldhearted scientist وداد 