Today I was asked whether I knew of a university police officer who might take certain crimes against (usually) women seriously, so I went into the file on my former stalker to retrieve the name.
In this process I glanced over part of the file, and saw things I had forgotten. For instance, my stalker had apparently hacked into the computer of another woman who broke up with him. (I was told this by a third party and put it in my log, but forgot about it.)
I had been afraid to break up with him because of the damage I feared he would wreak, and in retrospect he may have caused more damage than I knew at the time, or yet know.
Most eye-popping, however, is my chronicle on the activities of the Dean of my college at that time–retired now, thank God. I had forgotten all the things he said and did. It is absolutely amazing how incompetent, how generally bullying, how bad, and how outright dangerous for the university he was.
Had anything happened, this dean and the University would have been so liable, it is quite amazing. During the semester I was attempting to convince him to comply with orders from the municipal police and OSHA, a Professor and chair he had protected for years was being removed from the university because of sexual harassment.
#OccupyHE.
Axé.
This is awful: you had a stalker and you had to go through all this to get anything done about it? I hope it wasn’t too distressing to reread your log.
Oh, there was more, it was horrible! Distressing, no, more like revealing. The first year or so of this blog is actually all about it, in a veiled / allegorical way. 🙂
Oh, look, looking back, I think this post has an instance of commentary by the stalker, but without my realizing it was him. There were a lot of other comments I deleted/did not publish because I knew who it was.
https://profacero.wordpress.com/2006/11/25/daily-mail/#comments